Susan Miller

·Master of Fine Arts in Jewelry Design, Pratt Institute, 2012

·Bachelor of Arts in Gemology, University of California, Los Angeles, May 2005

·Editor-in-Chief, White Victoria (2018 - present)

·Write and research feature articles and profiles for print and online publication

·Contributing Writer, Modern Jeweler and Ornament

·Write and publish freelance articles for IGS and WSJ Magazine

·Jewelry Appraiser (2012 - 2020)

Weddings are a time of joy and celebration, but they can also bring plenty of stress while couples prepare for their special day. One area that couples often overlook is the selection process of their wedding bands. Not only do they represent the ultimate expression of eternal love, but men’s wedding bands, in particular, have a long and fascinating history behind them.

Ever wonder why men wear wedding bands? How did this piece of jewelry become so significant in a marriage celebration?

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As a jewelry expert, I’m here to tell you the story of men’s wedding bands and their significance and offer tips on choosing the perfect ring.

I’ll also discuss budget tips, quality considerations, and finding the right style or metal color to perfectly reflect and commemorate your relationship. Read on to learn more about selecting the best wedding band ever!

What Are the Origins of Men’s Wedding Bands?

The practice of wearing men’s wedding bands did not start in one moment. It is rooted in the ancient tradition of exchanging rings as a symbol of loyalty, commitment, and love.

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Ancient Times

The practice of men wearing wedding bands is believed to have originated in ancient Egypt. During that time, couples exchanged rings made of hemp or reeds. They wore the rings as a symbol of their eternal love. The practice later spread across Europe, Persia, and even India.

For centuries, wedding rings have been practiced in many cultures. In Ancient Rome, a gold ring was offered to the bride’s father as a symbol of payment for her hand in marriage and an indication that she now belonged to the groom. 

Modern Times 

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Men started wearing wedding rings to signify their marital status in the middle of the twentieth century. This significant shift resulted from multiple social and economic factors, such as consumer capitalism, wartime beliefs, and numerous other historical events.

In the 1900s, metals such as gold and silver became popular choices for wedding bands. Rapid industrialization during this period made metal rings affordable to the average person, allowing couples of all social classes to have access to them.

During World War I, men on the battlefield began wearing wedding rings to keep their beloved wives, and families close while they were far away. 

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This practice resonated through generations of soldiers during WWII; in the 1950s, it was truly embraced. These rings symbolized the commitment and responsibility many felt towards their loved ones back home.

Even after thousands of years, the wedding ring has not lost its luster. It remains a meaningful symbol for most couples, and male wedding bands have recently become increasingly trendy. Today, many fashionable men proudly wear rings to showcase their commitment and style.

What Is the Significance of Men’s Wedding Bands?

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A wedding band is a symbol of union and commitment between two people. It also represents our cultural values, such as faithfulness and loyalty. To this day, men’s wedding bands are seen as a token of love representing their eternal bond with their partner. 

Today’s society may not place as much emphasis on traditions like wearing a wedding band. But for many couples, exchanging rings is still essential to their wedding ceremony and celebration. 

Men’s wedding bands aren’t just about tradition anymore – they can be designed to represent your style and personality. From classic gold bands to intricate, custom-made pieces, the options for men’s wedding bands are virtually endless. 

How to Choose Men’s Wedding Bands?

Navigating the overwhelming selection of wedding rings can be an intimidating task for men, as today’s standards put just as much emphasis on expressing one’s character and style through a ring. Nevertheless, this isn’t necessarily bad - it allows guys to find something that truly speaks to their personality!

Here are some steps and tips on how to choose the perfect men’s wedding band: 

Step 1 - Find Your Ring Size

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The first step in selecting a wedding band is finding your ring size. When searching for the ideal wedding ring, it’s important to consider your size beforehand. This way, you can avoid the hassle of finding a beautiful piece that doesn’t fit or randomly guessing and purchasing something too large or small.

There are three common methods of measuring ring size:

The Ring Sizing Method: This is the most accurate way to measure your ring size. You’ll need a set of ring-sizing bushes and a mandrel (or cylinder) to do this. Place the mandrel between the bushes and measure the ring’s inside diameter.

The Measurement Method: This is simpler to measure your finger size. You’ll need a piece of string or a measuring tape. Wrap the string or measuring tape around your finger, marking where it overlaps. Then use a simple ruler to measure the length of the string/tape.

The Online Tool Method: Various online tools, such as sizing kits and ring size calculators, can help you find your perfect fit. 

For maximum accuracy, measure your finger when it is neither hot nor cold. When exposed to heat, fingers tend to swell, and in cooler temperatures, they appear slimmer; both conditions will produce an incorrect reading. 

Additionally, schedule the measurement for later in the day, as morning measurements could be off due to smaller ring sizes.

Step 2 - Decide on the Metal

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The next step in selecting a men’s wedding band is determining the type of metal you’d like. Popular options include gold, platinum, palladium, titanium, and stainless steel. 

· Gold is the traditional choice for wedding bands due to its timeless look and durability. Yellow gold is the most common option, but white and rose gold rings are also available. 

· Platinum is popular for its strength, durability, and luxurious white color. It is also hypoallergenic, making it a great choice for sensitive skin. 

· Palladium is similar to platinum but more affordable. It is a white metallic element with a subtle silver hue and has grown in popularity for men’s wedding bands. 

· Titanium is another popular choice among grooms due to its lightweight and durable properties. It comes in a variety of colors or natural gunmetal look. 

· Stainless steel or silver is the most affordable and durable option, making them a great choice for those on a tighter budget.

Once you’ve selected a metal, you can choose your wedding band’s style. 

Step 3 - Choose the Ring Style

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Many men’s wedding ring styles range from simple and classic to more intricate and modern designs. Some popular options include: 

Classic Wedding Band: This is a simple yet timeless style with a classic dome shape. It can be crafted in any metal and width of your choice. 


Wide Wedding Bands: This style is ideal for grooms who want to make a statement. These bands are usually wider than traditional rings and come in various metals and textures. 

Textured Wedding Bands: If you’re looking for a unique style, textured wedding bands are a great option. These rings typically feature a brushed, etched, or hammered texture and can be crafted in any metal of your choice. 

Solitaire Wedding Band: This style features a single gemstone in the center of the band, making it a great choice for grooms who want to add some sparkle to their wedding band. 

These are just a few of the many options available for men’s wedding rings. So take your time and find the perfect style that suits you best!

Step 4 - Find Your Perfect Fit

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Once you’ve chosen the metal and style of your ring, it’s time to find the perfect fit. Again, remember to use the accurate measurement method you used in step 1 and double-check your size for accuracy. 

When selecting your ring size, you have the option of either a standard or an ultra-comfortable comfort fit:

· The typical way of fitting a ring is known as ‘standard,’ which means the inner section that touches your finger has no curvature. This fit can be slightly tough to take off and on over the knuckle and might move around in circles more than other fits.

· Comfort-fit designs are the most typically used type of ring these days. With a slightly domed interior, not only do comfort fit rings provide an ideal wearing experience, but they also remain secure and be easily removed or placed on one’s finger.

Once you’ve got the perfect fit and style for your wedding band, it’s time to purchase. Be sure to take your time, think about your purchase, and make sure you’re happy with it before committing to the ring. 

Bottom Line

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Choosing the perfect men’s wedding ring doesn’t have to be a daunting task. With the right knowledge and guidance, you can easily find the perfect metal, style, and size for your special day. 

Just remember to take accurate measurements and double-check them for accuracy before committing to your purchase. With that done, you can rest assured knowing that you’ve chosen a timeless and durable piece of jewelry that will last a lifetime. 

By following these steps, you’re sure to find the perfect men’s wedding ring for your special day - one that you can treasure forever. Congratulations on taking your first step toward finding the perfect symbol of your love!